I joined alt on a whim last time, not really knowing much about my own fetishes, or bdsm. I've since discovered a lot about myself, and some of my more kinky desires. I've also learned that this is something I need to explore on my own, entirely separate and discreet from the conventional day to day of my life. Another thing I've realized is that my wife and I don't share the same kinks. In fact, things we've done have invoked bad memories, and for obvious reasons, immediately shut things down. For example, she despises feet guys. However I adore women's feet. But I could never ask to suck her toes. If you can read between the lines, perhaps you can see why I'm here, and understand why my situation is complicated. I'm really into camming, feet, panties, d/s, trans, anal, and the idea of a public encounter, among other things. I'm hoping to find some like minded people though, that can help me explore experience that I only daydream about:)
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My Ideal Person:
My ideal person won't judge me. If you don't agree or approve of my situation, simply move on. They will also be very patient, and understand that most of the time, I won't be able to meet at the drop of a hat. My ideal person has it together, can be honest, and communicate. Ideally, you're in, or have been in a situation like this, and can fulfill desire as well To be a little more specific, my ideal
Woman- loves (clean)foot play, from worshipping to toe sucking to footjobs, i want it all. She's into or thought about panty play. Panty stuffing, panty jobs, or maybe you're turned on by me wearing yours I would love to find a dominatrix, or someone curious about domination. Degradation does not interest me, but for someone who has to be in control most of the time, the idea of giving someone else control over me is a huge turn on..
Man- someone versatile leaning more on the top side would be ideal. I love a good bottom sub, but I tend to naturally lean top...
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